I just wanted to share some tips and tricks that I’ve learned from my first year as a man.
For starters, I realized that I can’t rely on the men around me for advice.
If I want to be successful in my career and my career can take care of itself, I’ll need to find someone else to take the helm.
So I went to my closest friends, and I asked them what they thought I should do to be the best man possible.
They said, “Oh, you know, be a woman!”
And I was like, What the heck?
The advice they gave me was “Don’t go out and do what you’re supposed to be doing.”
So I thought, What’s wrong with me?
I don’t want to do what I’m supposed to do.
So I did what I was supposed to.
I stopped eating junk food.
I quit drinking alcohol.
I took classes at night.
I never went to bars or parties.
And I never did anything that would make me feel bad about myself.
And then, just like that, I was back to being the guy that I was meant to be.
What I’ve discovered, though, is that there are many men who don’t realize that the way to be an effective man is to do something different than everyone else.
It’s about how you act.
It’s about who you surround yourself with.
And it’s about what you say.
So if you want to succeed in this job, you have to become more like the men who were the best at what they do.